Should You Even Bother Trying To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Does it seem like your girlfriend has moved on? Is she seeing someone else or is she almost hostile towards you any time you try to talk to her? Are you frustrated and do you get the feeling that you should forget about trying to win her back? You know in your mind that this would be the easy thing to do. You feel like a fool and everyone is telling you to forget about her. You love her though and in your heart you just wish that things would go back to how they were before. The decision of whether or not to try to get back together with your ex is a personal one. Only you can make this decision. It is your life and your heart. Only you know what is best for you. While your real friends and family will support you in your decision no matter what it is, they see you in pain and they want you to be happy. While moving on and forgetting about your ex is an simple thing to do it's no necessarily easy. Denying what you really want in life is a bitter pill to swallow. Giving up on a dream feels like a huge failure. The thing is that it is possible to move on but still have the goal of getting back together with the woman you love. It is possible to change the timeline that you have given yourself for when you want to get your ex back and thus improve your chances. If you understand that maybe it's going to happen six months or a year from now, would that take some of the pressure off of you? Maybe there are things that you need to accomplish over the next six months that would improve your life and your chances of winning her back. Maybe you want to buy a house or a new car or get a new job. Maybe you want to lose some weight or get started on a new degree. When you change the timeframe that is acceptable to you and when you give yourself more realistic expectations when it comes to your relationship, the entire process seems more doable. When you keep your goal to yourself and you map out the process in your mind or on paper it all seems more logical and easy. Often by taking the pressure off yourself, you are able to be cool and calm and confident in yourself, your ability to win her back and also your ability to create the kind of life that any woman would want to be a part of. The choice is really up to you. Although I would suggest that you continue to pressure your ex if she is acting negatively towards your interest in getting back together, giving up on your dream doesn't have to be an option. Giving yourself a little breathing room and being more realistic about how quickly you wished that things would turn around may help alleviate some of the stress in your life. You will also find that by relaxing about all of this you will have an air of confidence and coolness about you that your ex girlfriend or wife will find attractive. Find out more on Ex2 System Matt Huston