Finding answers

Ever wonder why, no matter how closely you follow the rules of etiquette, you can never seem to attract the kind of romantic relationship with a woman in your life? It would seem that every woman you meet is polite and friendly with you, but they never see you as more than just a friend. What are the answers? Is it your looks? Or your money (or lack thereof?) Do you need to follow the rules even more closely?

Actually, it's none of the above. You may not know this, but you're already killing your chances the moment you say the first word to her. Here's the thing - women aren't really all that hot with the rules. Sure, following the rules can work in your favor, but it can only get you so far when you're looking for a romantic relationship.

Why is this? Well, it's simply the fact that attraction is an emotion, and that emotions can't be controlled by logical rules. No one can tell you that you're in love, right? You just know you're in love. Similarly, you can't "convince" women to like you by following the rules. All you'll convince them to do is to reject you for being just like everyone else.

Another thing you might not know is that women can sense weakness in you more easily than you can. You've probably had those moments when you had second thoughts about approaching a certain woman, since you were probably afraid she'd think you were a jerk. What you didn't know was that she could sense your hesitation even before you finally approached - and that pretty much killed your chances already.

So what do you need to do to trigger that "chemistry" between you and a new woman? Simple - it's the third thing you may not know about women, and it's the fact that women love men who follow their own rules.

Here's something for starters - instead of being all polite and formal with her, try to be cocky and funny. Remember that most people she's met before has probably tried to pull that old "polite and formal" routine on her, and it simply bores her to death. Dare to be different and give her a breath of fresh air in the dating game, and she'll love you for it.